oldest birth order.

                   In the article, “Birth order’, the author Lucille K.Forer, discusses the importance of birth order. Birth order is a system that’s the way people can certify the person position in his family. I like oldest step from birth order position even though he/she usually has struggle live then others children. Oldest child most of time is thoughtful, painstaking, and easy moving.  Oldest child doesn’t spoil when his/her live has crises time. Oldest child most of time tries to keep a peaceful position on his family.

Birth Order

                                     As birth steps, it has four categories such as, oldest, middle,youngest,and only child. In these four situations, children usually get born.On that place, people have varieties realization that i am going to explain.

                                   First of all, author talks about  oldest children, on this kid sons/daughters, parents most of time hope that their oldest children will help giving by financial support on their family. For example, we are three brothers included me and I am oldest.  when i was in Bangladesh usually my parents talked about me to get a job for financial supporting in our family.  Anyhow, my father is a business man. Although he has enough money to maintain our family, I understand that he wants to depend on me. I have been living in the New York City for three years. In the beaning, I am helping by sending money to them. one more thing that parents day day is getting old, so they are usually going to rely on their oldest children. Whatever, my parents are expecting from me

                         Secondly, author talks about middle and he says that middle child most of time have enough confidence. Middle children most of time  are more capable to do on their job. They think that they have  person who can take care them when they have dangerous time.

                       Thirdly, youngest child, youngest child most time feel lazy because they always think that some always ready to help on my job.

                       Finally, only child, only children have most possible to succeed on their job because the can think that one time, nobody will  around me,so how can i would survive. I have learn my self how much i can.

                          I strongly believe that people are not happy on their position, so we have to think positively on our situation than we can find peach in our mind. We have comprise even though we have some problem on our moving steps. Nobody can't change this position it depend on the person luck.                                                                                                                                                                        

           My name is Ruhul and i came from Bangladesh to New York City three years ago. My family consist of five members.I am oldest son in my family. I have two more younger brothers. They are living in Bangladesh with my parents. They study in college level. My mother is a house wife and father is a business man. I miss them very much so, i call them everyday. Favorite person in that family is my mom and she also love me very much. As a oldest son of my family, i have response on my family's members that is taking care of my youngest brothers. Such as, i sometimes call  them and explain  them what is good and bad for them in  the daily life and they very much respect me.I am very much  proud of my family members.